Get Your Ex Back - Avoid These 5 Things Like The Plague

If you can’t quite come to terms with your recent split and are suffering. You need to avoid any of these things if you desire to get your ex back. Most people will end up doing one or the other of these simply because they know no different.

1 - Do not lie about your ex

You will ruin any chance you have of getting together again with this one. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. And as far as I was concerned my recent ex is definitely going to stay that way…my ex!

2 - Making them feel jealous

Now, this can work to your advantage under certain circumstances. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. You can easily get the wrong reaction here, instead of a little jealousy they may just feel disgust and decide it’s over for ever.

3 - Stalking your ex

We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. The best you can hope for is to be seen as desperate and needy. That doesn’t help you at all. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.

4 - Getting revenge on your ex

If you are harbouring thoughts of revenge then you must ask yourself how badly you want to get your ex back. Getting revenge in any way shape or form on your ex must mean you don’t really love them as much as you claim to. If you love someone you wouldn’t hurt them.

5 - Calling & texting constantly

Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. What if they were to change their number instead of just ignoring you? If they do that there’s a good chance you lost them for good.

You now know a few things to avoid doing if you have desires to get your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them

Take a bit of advice and spend some time getting yourself in the right frame of mind to move forward with your plan. If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.

When I went through a breakup and wanted to get my wife back I turned to a system that was so easy to follow it was like painting by numbers, but this was getting my ex back by numbers.

Getting your ex back is a choice, not a chance.